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书名：Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
作者：John Gray
起始部份：第三章第一节下

On the other hand, men generally have little ____1____ of how distant they become when they are in their cave. As a man recognizes how withdrawing into his cave may affect women, he can be more compassionate when she feels neglected and unimportant.

TO increase consideration both men and women need to understand each other better. ____________________2______________________. Knowing he is coping with stress in his own way is extremely helpful but does not always help her ____3___ the pain.

At such times she may feel the need to talk about these feelings. This is when it is important for the man to____4____ her feelings. He needs to understand that she has a right to talk about her feelings just as he has a right to withdraw into his cave and not talk. If she does not feel understood then it is difficult for her to release her hurt and except its differences.

When women talk about problems, men usually ____5____. A man assumes she is talking with him about her problems because she is holding him responsible. The more problems, the more he feels blamed. He does not realize that she is talking to feel better. A man doesn't know that she will appreciate it greatly if he just listens.

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